Lovlie, let me share something that changed my entire life: the moment I stopped pushing and started flowing, abundance found me.

I know what you're thinking – because I was there too. As an immigrant who built a successful career through sheer determination, I used to wear my "hustle harder" mindset like a badge of honor. Two degrees by 24, management position by 26, working myself to exhaustion... I thought that's what success required.

For years, I wore my "strong independent woman" title like armor. You know the one – career focused, self-reliant, never asking for help, handling everything on my own. As an immigrant and young carer, I thought this was the only way to succeed.